Collars

What is a BDSM collar? A BDSM Collar (which is a bondage restraint that safely wraps around the neck) is a common part of kinky play for a lot of people. Not only is a BDSM collar extremely easy to use (just wrap it around the neck, check for tightness, and go!), but it also is extremely functional.

First off, a BDSM collar and leash offer a fantastic bondage option. Now that you have a bondage point around someone's neck, you have a new place to attach restraints. A BDSM leash is a common attachment to a collar (for leading your partner around!), but you can also get more creative. A BDSM leather collar can become the attachment point for any restrictive bondage - like tying your partner to their favorite chair, so they just ask permission to leave. Not only that, but it can be used as an attachment point for other pieces of bondage, so you can use nylon tethers to attach your partner's kinky cuffs and kinky restraints to the collar's O-ring itself.

Second off, a BDSM collar can have a lot of sentimental and intimate meaning. Our necks are one of the most personal (and vulnerable!) spots on our bodies. Slipping a piece of fabric around this area can feel highly charged. When you add the fact that BDSM collars are regularly represented in media and education as the "mark of ownership", this can be an extremely emotional activity.  (Read about how much a collar means to this writer.)

(Does that all sound amazing? Our 9 Tips for Choosing a Play Collar will help you select a BDSM collar that's best for you!)

If you're looking for sex collars, you've come to the right place! Our curated selection of the best BDSM collars means you'll find a great neck restraint - whether you're using it for self-collaring, purchasing it for a partner, or just want to create some sexy selfies. We especially recommend checking out our cute bdsm collar, our bdsm collar and leash, our bdsm collar with nipple clamps, our metal bdsm collar, our discreet bdsm collar, our pink bdsm collar, our bdsm collar for men, our bdsm posture collar, and many more! Most of our bdsm collars are beginner-friendly, so don't be afraid to pick from any of our collars; they can all be a great fit!

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Everything included within the Master Series Pink Kitty Bondage Set laid out up against a plain white background. All of the items included within the kit are included via text within the product description. | Kinkly ShopAn illustrated anime character is bound up with the Master Series Pink Kitty Bondage Set, wearing the collar, blindfold, cuffs, leash, and hogtie connector. Text on the image reads: "Durable vegan material that remains intact throughout playtime." | Kinkly Shop
XR Brands Master Series Pink Kitty Bondage Set
$129.95 $99.99
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NS Novelties Cosmo Bondage Collar and Leash | Kinkly ShopPackaging for the NS Novelties Cosmo Bondage Collar and Leash | Kinkly Shop
NS Novelties NS Novelties Cosmo Bondage Collar and Leash
$43.63 $34.99
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The "Play Nice" Satin Collar with Nipple Clamps laid out against a white background. The collar is fastened and propped up while the chains for the nipple clamps protrude from the collar itself. One nipple clamp is fastened shut and the other nipple clamp is open. | Kinkly SHopClose-up of the nipple clamps. One clamp is fully open while the other clamp of the "Play Nice" Satin Collar with Nipple Clamps is fully closed. Each clamp also has a small, four-ball charm that drapes off of it. | Kinkly Shop
Fifty Shades of Grey "Play Nice" Satin Collar with Nipple Clamps
$24.99 $21.99
The NS Novelties Cara Collar in front of a plain white background. It's a thin, circular black color that goes all around the neck with a small gold O-ring on the front of the collar. It looks like a discreet fashion collar. | Kinkly ShopPackaging for the NS Novelties Cara Collar | Kinkly Shop
NS Novelties NS Novelties Cara Collar
$22.99
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The NS Novelties Elvira Collar in front of a plain white background. It's made of a black faux leather with blood "droplets" built into the collar's shape. There's a gold charm and a gem on the center front of the collar. It has a color-matching gold buckle on the backside of the collar to adjust the circumference. | Kinkly ShopPackaging for the NS Novelties Elvira Collar | Kinkly Shop
NS Novelties NS Novelties Elvira Collar
$37.38 $26.99
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A topless person is wearing the Coquette Pleasure Collar. Their arms cover their chest. The collar is particularly wide, and it covers up a lot of their neck with a large, eye-catching O-ring on the front of the collar. | Kinkly ShopA person stares into the camera while wearing the Coquette Pleasure Collar in White. The O-ring is very large, and it's easily the centerpoint of the image. | Kinkly Shop
Coquette Coquette Pleasure Collar
$50.00 $47.99
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The Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar in front of a white background. It has a single O-ring on the center front, and the black material looks like it shines. | Kinkly ShopBackside of the Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar. It features a standard belt-buckle-style clasp in the back of the collar. The interior layer of the Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar has two rivets that can be felt by the wearer that help fasten in the O-ring on the front of the collar. | Kinkly Shop
Sportsheets Sportsheets Orbit Day Collar
$22.50 $17.99
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Coquette White and Rose Gold Leash against a white background | Kinkly ShopA person wears the Coquette White and Rose Gold Leash around their neck like a necklace. | Kinkly Shop
Coquette Coquette White and Rose Gold Leash
$25.00 $23.99
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The NS Novelties Spectra Rainbow Collar and Leash up against a white background. The interior faux leather color is a light pink while the external color is a rainbow ombre. All of the hardware is a shiny gold. | Kinkly ShopPackaging for the NS Novelties Spectra Rainbow Collar and Leash | Kinkly Shop
NS Novelties NS Novelties Spectra Rainbow Collar and Leash
$40.88 $35.99
The Sportsheets Brat Collar and Leash fastened up in a circle like it would be worn. The leash is draped in front of the collar and attached to the D-ring on the front of the collar. The leash handle is closest to the camera, and it's a standard, simply loop that the hand or wrist can slide through to tug on the leash. | Kinkly ShopClose-up of the D-ring where the leash attaches to the collar in the Sportsheets Brat Collar and Leash. A single rivet can be seen on the inner lining of the Sportsheets Brat Collar. The area with the D-ring attachment point is the thinnest in height compared to the rest of the collar. | Kinkly Shop
Sportsheets Sportsheets Brat Collar and Leash
$28.99
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Everything included in the Blush Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit, spread out against a white background. The full list of contents is included within the text description of the set. | Kinkly ShopA person in a brightly lit room is sitting on the floor with their legs spread. Between their legs is the case for the Blush Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit. They have the case opened to the camera, showcasing all of the items included within the Blush Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit hanging in the case. | Kinkly Shop
Blush Novelties Blush Temptasia Safe Word Bondage Kit
$263.99 $186.99
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The Kinklab Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set up against a white background. The leash is currently connected to the cock ring which is looped like it would be worn. | Kinkly ShopThe background of the image is a naked person wearing the Kinklab Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set. They are holding onto their own leash. Covering anything explicit is a picture-in-picture that shows the Kinklab Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set laid flat in front a white background. | Kinkly Shop
KinkLab Kinklab Cock Ring and Chain Leash Set
$53.13 $43.99
Kinklab Bondage Basics Leather Leash up against a plain white background. It looks like a single, long strip of leather with a looped handle (fastened by a rivet) on one end. On the opposing end, a loop with a rivet contains a metal fastener that is attached to a swivel-friendly metal clasp. | Kinkly ShopA couple using the Kinklab Bondage Basics Leather Leash. The bound partner is wearing a leash and kneeling in front of their partner. The standing partner is holding the leash which is clipped to the kneeling partner's collar. The kneeling partner looks surprised while the standing partner looks domineering. | Kinkly Shop
KinkLab Kinklab Bondage Basics Leather Leash
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Shots Ouch! Printed Collar and Leash in Love Street Art | Kinkly ShopShots Ouch! Printed Collar and Leash in Love Street Art | Kinkly Shop
Shots Shots Ouch! Street Art Collar and Leash
$37.38 $26.99
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Spartacus Brown Collar and Leash laid out against a white background. The leash is connected to the collar. | Kinkly ShopThe Spartacus Brown Collar and Leash laid flat against a black background. The collar is completely flat and unfastened, and the leash handle is flat as well. The leash's chain connects the collar to the leash and is laying out flat. | Kinkly Shop
Spartacus Spartacus Brown Collar and Leash
$85.85 $70.99
NS Novelties Electra Play Things Collar and Leash in Green. The attached leash is a chain leash, and the handle of the leash is black. | Kinkly ShopNS Novelties Electra Play Things Collar and Leash in Pink. The attached leash is a chain leash, and the handle of the leash is black. | Kinkly Shop
NS Novelties NS Novelties Electra Play Things Collar and Leash
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